Platitudes are tempting. They sound safe. Polite. Professional.

But when used in place of genuine engagement, they reveal indifference — not care.

Saying “we value you” without asking questions.
Saying “we respect your work” without understanding it.
Saying “we want you here” without preparing for the conversation.

That isn’t reassurance. It’s distance disguised as concern.

People don’t leave because of harsh words alone.
They leave because they recognize when words are empty.

Experience teaches you to hear the difference.